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WOBURN — After two decades addicted to alcohol
and virtually every other drug he could get his hands on, Phil Malonson has
opened sober houses where more than 100 other recovering addicts are seeking a
new life. “I started the first house five years ago at 27 Lake Ave. for
selfish reasons, to keep me from drinking and drugging,” Malonson said this
week in his newest and largest sober house, the former Glendale Nursing Home in
Woburn’s Four Corners, where 43 men live. “It just grew so quick. We can’t
keep what we have unless we give it away.”
He recalls beginning by
sniffing glue in 1964 in woods 100 yards from the Lake Avenue house. He was 10.
Over the next five years he acquired a taste for beer, whiskey, marijuana, LSD,
mescaline, amphetamines, barbiturates, methedrine, codeine, heroin, methadone,
morphine, cocaine and crack. He dropped out of Woburn High School at 16. “I
remember my first drunk,” Malonson said. “I was in the sixth grade. Me and
some friends got some Schlitz and Pabst Blue Ribbon and a peanut butter jar
full of Seagram’s 7. I was 12 when I first got arrested for being drunk. The
police chief in Winchester, who knew my father, called him and asked him to
come get me.”
Malonson says he has been sober since Jan. 13, 1988,
after being detoxified perhaps 50 times, after being arrested more than 100
times, mainly held in protective custody while intoxicated, and bouncing around
the country for 15 years, serving in the Army in Texas, becoming Fast Phil the
bartender in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., landing in an addiction treatment center in
Norman, Okla., among other places. Returning to Woburn 10 years ago, he earned
a GED, enrolled in Northern Essex Community College and became a substance
abuse counselor at Choate Health Systems’ Caulfield Center, a 21-bed
psychiatric hospital and detox unit in Woburn.
The reputation Malonson
has built since changing direction is stunning. He credits his parents, three
young sisters and supportive friends. Prominent among his admirers are Woburn
District Court’s chief probation officer, Charles Winchester, who now has a
dozen offenders in the sober homes, and Woburn’s police chief, Philip Mahoney,
who once arrested him. “Ninety percent of our cases are alcohol- or
substance-abuse-related,” Winchester said.
“Thank God for Phil
Malonson. The guy’s amazing.” Mahoney said: “We’ve had great success with
Phil Malonson. He’s turned his whole life around. He runs the sober homes
excellently. Our only concern is that Woburn is not the magnet. They could use
one of his houses in Winchester or Lexington, too.”
Malonson, 43, a
lifelong gun enthusiast, received a license to carry firearms Sept. 15 after a
hearing in the Woburn court before Judge Marie Jackson-Thompson at which
Mahoney vouched for his character. Malonson is also a professional clown on the
side, rides a Fat Boy, the biggest Harley-Davidson motorcycle made, and wears a
ponytail.
Jack Conlon, the owner of 27 Lake, a two-story house with
dark green shamrock awnings, joins the chorus of praise for Malonson and his
organization, Twelve Step Education Program of New England. “Some people asked
how I could put a bunch of drunks in my father’s house, but the neighbors have
learned to like it,” said Conlon, still landlord to eight recovering
alcoholics and drug addicts. “I couldn’t have done better with any tenants.
There hasn’t been a drop of alcohol on that property. The men are friendly.
They take care of the yard. The property is being used like it was in the old
days.”
In August, Malonson said, 400 recovering users attended the
annual cookout at 27 Lake St. he hosts for Cocaine Anonymous. The co-owners of
Choate Health Systems, Dr. Stuart Koman and Dr. David Fassler, each lent their
employee Malonson $1,200, which enabled him to lease the house from Conlon in
November 1992.
“We felt it was an important service that existed in
very few places in the country, certainly not in Massachusetts,” Koman said.
“If you don’t have a stable place to live after detox, you’re likely to
repeat. We felt it would be a safe environment, but we didn’t think it would be
as successful as it is. That’s a credit to Phil.”
The house manager at
27 Lake is Ed, 47, a part-time UPS driver and childhood friend of Malonson. Six
of the other seven residents have outside jobs. “One kid relapsed,” Ed told a
visitor over the kitchen table. “Got into an accident while drunk. Then he got
into a second accident while drunk and got arrested. After he did a couple of
months in jail, Phil gave him another chance, his fourth or fifth. Phil’s
attitude is, if they’d thrown in the towel on him when he was struggling, he
might be dead. Phil can be tough, but it’s a fine line he walks.”
The
former nursing home — a white building with black shutters at 171 Old
Cambridge Road overlooking a Kentucky Fried Chicken on Cambridge Street (Route
3) — is one of six sober houses in Woburn, two of them for women. Two other
women’s houses, on North Street in Medford and Church Avenue in Woburn, became
men’s houses last month after nearly all the female residents either relapsed
or left abruptly on their own, according to Malonson and his wife, Doreen.
Jeannette, 47, one of five residents of the women’s house on Richardson
Street, lamented the loss of the two other homes. “When these things happen,
it scares us to death,” she said in the cozy living room, pink curtains on its
windows. “We’re so grateful to have this. We know how desperately women need
places. We’re learning to live all over again.”
Twelve Step opened a
sober house in 1994 in a former crack house in Leominster. It now has 27 men.
This week Twelve Step plans to open a thrift store at 135 Main St. here,
selling used furniture, appliances and clothing. It is designed to offer
residents of the sober houses a chance to repair and pick up donated items. All
the sober houses have a steady turnover, although Malonson said he did not know
what percentage comply with their contracts (no drinking and no drug use are
the most important requirements) before leaving. Residents, half of whom are
mentally ill by Malonson’s estimate, pay $80 a week for room and board at the
smaller houses, $90 a week at the former nursing home.
Attendance at
three Alcoholics Anonymous meetings a week is mandatory. Don Cochran, 45,
manager of the Four Corners house, celebrated his second anniversary of
sobriety Sept. 7. The house mascot is a Vietnamese pot-bellied pig named Gizmo.
Cochran’s pet, rarely leaving his shoulder, is Mona, a green Amazon parrot.
“Phil’s compassion is so great it’s almost a fault,” said Cochran, who this
week is seeing his daughter for the first time in 16 years. “He doesn’t want
to stop helping. We give urine and saliva tests if we think someone’s using.
Our rule is, three strikes and you’re out. Sometimes Phil will give people a
fourth or fifth chance. He doesn’t see the evil in people, only the good. Phil
will make sure people have money for bus fare or cigarettes when they leave,
even if he’s kicked them out.”
Richard Sargent of Arlington, an
insurance consultant and president of the Twelve Step board, marvels at
Malonson’s combination of street smarts, compassion and energy. “He gets
burned by a lot of people, but he can tolerate that,” Sargent said. “But he
has no tolerance for dishonesty.” Malonson said he will open a 20-bed
sober house in Salem by the end of October and is negotiating to lease three
40-bed houses, in Medford, Stoneham and Billerica. “This gives me the energy
to keep going,” he said. “I get spiritual help around here.” ©
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